Thursday, May 10, 2007
its been a really really long day with my tkd just ended an hour ago.... yet, i have this pressing issue within my heart that i would like to address to now...
in life... there are many things which help to mould us into the person we are now... and i believe that one of the most impt thing in life... is our friends..
i mean seriously, wat are friends for? they are the ppl in life whom you hang out with, play with. enjoy life with, suck your school life with, complain bout how sch suck to... basically everything outside your home, its always with your friends... they are impt in life...
as a friend, i feel that it would be best to put others above self... its the morally right thing to do and not to be selfish... i mean its just equal... cause they put you more impt then they put themselves...
as a person... i know, i shouldnt forget the past.. neither should i live for them either.... remember the past, live for the future.... but would it be really bad... that on your "moving on with life" you just dump your friends there... and switch to a new bunch of friends WHICH (i'm not even saying whom here" will suit to your new NEEDS... then cause your old FRIENDS are just not good for your SELF CENTRED GOALS... you leave them....
so, i'm just stating my PERSONAL OPINION HERE...
its ok to move on...
its ok to change..
just feel that, its not right to make empty promises...
not good to dump your friends and make them look like some product on sale...
not good to ACT like they are still friends when deep down, you might not wan to hang out with them anymore....
not good to ACT in the first place.... cause its quite clear to see
then not good to leave and make ppl rmb you in the wrong way....
might as well leave and dont let ppl fan about you and think why did you do this why did you do that blah blah blah....
why dont you just say it out or CLARIFY THE TRUTH FACE TO FACE while you are still friends.....
just hope that the msg has reached the relevant ppl involved... cause if not, wont be my lost anyway either rite?
heng at 11:10 PM